Nathalie

So we say that there are good break ups and bad break ups, but what is really a good break up? How do you end something with someone, a someone who has meant the world to you, a someone that has been a part of your life for so long, someone that knows your deepest darkest secrets, who knows where everything is on your body, knows your weakspots, what turns you on, what makes you laugh, what your favourite ice cream and so forth, how do you end it on a good notice with that someone? I just don't know. But then, is every break up a bad break up? I wouldent think so. But then, what is the best, a break up where you totally let go of the person you have shared a life with or is it a better break up if you give one another time and eventually find your way back...as friends?

I guess i have really just had break ups where i in the end talk to the guys i have dated, in a weird and in some cases very complicated way we have found our way back, back to bering a part of eachothers life. Is that considerd a good break up then? Or is it bad because you want, and have,a person in your life who you either hurt or got hurt by?