Nathalie

So how do we know how to really define and say what some of the people are in our life, what connection, relationship we realy have with some people? Is it so that we like to but label on people, that instead of saying that this is someone that had a huge part in my life and in my heart and now he/she is frined, or something, is to hard and to complicated so we say that he/she is a ex. boy/girlfriend... but dosent that sound mean, saying that someone is your ex, cause the person you are telling that will probably imidieatly think, or might even ask, why he or she dont play that part in your life anymore and then.. there you are, once again, thinking about it. Do we label people easily, is labeling someone being judgemental... and judgemental to who? Yourself, that person or the people you are telling the persons label too? Why do we label, and how do we define some of our "relationships", whoever it is? And why do we do it, does it matter, or do we just label and define the people that matters to us? Then let me say that there is wuit a few people i would like to know what label i have in their lives, or how they would define "what we have" or what "we" are.... labeling and defining, judgemntal or purely just...the truth, good or bad?