Two can play this game(?!)
So, i have mentioned it before, this whole game playing thing between boys and girls...and the game is constantly on. I guess i had forgotten parts of the game, i guess saying that im saying i have forgotten some of the unspoken rules, but im back and i guess...that two can play this game? I think that for us to really get it together, to really be able to get closer to one another playing "the" game at first, gives us an opportunity to really take one step at a time, see where it takes us and later on the gard that we put up in defense in the beginning, we are able to take down. So maybe that's what it is, and maybe the qoute "don't hate the player, hate the game" is really what it's all about. But then why are we really playing these games? If we start a relationship by playing games, by maybe not showing what it sis that you will really get, then do we really ever stop playing "the"/"a" game with that person? And how do we know when it's no longer a game, but maybe actually for real? How do we really know....and do we ever want to bring it up to discussion or is that when it becomes, hmm.. game over?